the emotional life

  • joy as a moral obligation

    I recently read a passage from a book by the Franciscan priest and author Richard Rohr which resonated deeply. He writes in Eager to Love: The Alternative Way of Francis of Assisi: The ordinary dualistic mind is consumed by counting and measuring how moral I am or you are. It weighs everything up and down–mostly…

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  • the monkey pod tree in the beach park

    Have you ever had the experience of being irritated with someone or about something, like a parking ticket, while waking somewhere when suddenly you notice a gorgeous sunset is also happening? How long did it take you to let go of the “irritation voices” in your head to take in the sunset? Or maybe you…

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  • wholeness and redemptive suffering

    Redemptive suffering is the idea that suffering can lead to growth. It can bring about a positive transformation. Theology sees suffering as a path to atonement. Philosophy views it as an opportunity for self-discovery. Psychology suggests it can build resilience. For Buddhism, this is the foundational insight. Suffering takes many forms. Physical pain is one…

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