the emotional life

  • leaving things undone

    Our simple practice helps us release the unhelpful preoccupations that creep into our minds as we sit quietly and observe our thoughts. Releasing these, I find I have less need for quick “hits” of distraction, like the news. What would it be like to spend more time absorbed in the awe of existence, rather than…

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  • where the quiet joy lives

    Life for me right now is good. I returned from two months of intensive practice in Sri Lanka and Malaysia. My health is OK. I even went to the gym yesterday. Yet stuff comes up. Not because of anything in particular. I’m sitting here typing this and I sense some uneasiness, some anxiety, perhaps a…

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  • Buddhist equanimity: open to what is

    Mindfulness allows us to live into all that cannot be solved. It’s also a gateway to equanimity, the peace of the present moment. The other day, I listened to a podcast of an interview with Frank Osteseki, who is a pioneer in end-of-life care, founding in 1987 the Zen Hospice Project, the first Buddhist hospice…

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  • meeting your edge

    The American Buddhist nun Pema Chödrön tells a story about meeting your edge- of a group of people climbing up a very steep mountain. Some made it to the top, and some, gripped by fear, had to stop halfway up. She observes: Life is a journey of meeting your edge again and again. That’s where…

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  • mindfulness as play

    The comedy improv teacher Jimmy Carrane mentioned in a blog post that the Illinois State Lottery once had a slogan that went: “You can’t win of you don’t play.” Although I’m not endorsing gambling here, we can apply this slogan to how we practice mindfulness. If we approach our practice as a grim duty to…

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  • love in the midst of darkness

    The other day I came across a very short poem by the 11th century Japanese woman poet Izumi Shikibu, and it struck a chord: Although the windblows terribly here,the moonlight also leaksbetween the roof planksof this ruined house. the Israel-Hamas war I knew in my heart there was some meaning to the poem’s effect on…

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  • the joy of a quiet mind

    Do you have a fear of missing out on a more spiritual experience doing a mountain of laundry, washing a sink full of dishes, or raking leaves till kingdom come? The meditation teacher Karen Maezen Miller, in a piece published in Lion’s Roar, rightfully calls us on this thought, while describing how the domestic lives…

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  • no non-judgemental zombies here

    It’s easy to see why one would think this, since mindfulness teaches us to pay attention to our direct experience non-judgmentally, well, then it would seem to follow that we will eventually lose the capacity or willingness to judge. Mindfulness is actually about slowing down the often rapid-fire judging most of us are doing non-stop…

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  • monkey mind, crabby mind

    Lately, I’ve been dealing with a relative of monkey mind I am calling crabby mind. They may be far apart on the biologic tree of life, but they are kissing cousins on my meditation mat. I’ve turned into a real crab. No, I didn’t wake up one morning to discover I was a decapod crustacean…

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  • to love the world just as it is

    The Zen teacher Sobun Katherine Thanas in a book which was published not long after she passed a few years ago, wrote:  I have come to realize that our work is to love the world just as it is. The work she is talking about is our simple meditation practice. I took a peek at…

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